Going on Your First Swinger Cruise

Every now and then you find yourself wanting to try something new. You could decide to change the colors of the clothes you wear or the type of books you read. And you could just as easily decide to go on your first swinger cruise.

Sounds exciting or scary? Well, you made it here, and that’s the first big step. Going on your first swinger cruise can be a blast of either emotion but when you have got the right info telling you just what to expect or do, it becomes simply exciting! Stick with me cause it’s about to get slippery!

First, off we need to be on the same page about swinging. Now, many people think swinging is just a pile of orgies practiced by crazy, weird, older individuals. That is so not true. Swinging is a lifestyle. It is a choice made by a couple or singles (of adult age) to explore or experience a new level of sexual satisfaction with other couples or singles.  It is like participating in sports as a recreational activity or going to a bar as a social activity. Hence, those who engage in swinging are called swinger.

What is a Swinger Cruise?

When you put the words ’swinger’ and ‘cruise’ together it’s easy to imagine a ship full of naked bodies or people just mounting each other under the blazing sun at sea. Well, there’s some truth to that but you don’t quite have the full picture yet.

A swinger cruise is the ultimate swinger experience. It is as you would expect, an adult-only cruise with like-minded couples. It is cruising through pristine waters on a vacation that involves playrooms, erotic adult movies, naughty theme parties, massages, pool deck competitions, and more. Sex is a definite factor but just not everywhere and every time. A swinger cruise is like a fun adult party where you get do adult things including playing as much as you like.

Between booking the trip and going through the experience there’s a lot to do and expect. Here are the tips to keep a newbie like yourself on top of things from start to finish.

What to expect when going on your first swinger cruise

Swinger cruises are not a swinger only zone

Going on your first swinger cruise does not immediately define you as a swinger. For all, I know you could be looking to test the waters or enjoy a wild sexual experience for once in your life. The important thing to know is that a swinger cruise does not mean strictly no other group is allowed. Swinger cruises are adult-only cruises for anyone looking to have fun with other adults. The bars are open to everyone and orgies, going nude, or pole dancing is elective. You get to do what you want without judging others or being judged.

It is not sex every minute

Like I said before, a swinger cruise is not about people having sex from when they wake up to when they go to sleep. A lot of fun activities take place between or before the orgies and they all help make the cruise such a blissful experience. During the day, you can have some fun out on the pool, enjoy seminars that focus on hot topics such as jealousy, BDSM, using sex toys, the G-spot, communicating and more. When in port, there are also fun activities to indulge in such as beach parties, tours, and visiting swinger playgrounds like Eyz Wide Shut Lifestyle Nightclub. There are also normal non-sexual activities.

What’s in a playroom?

A playroom is a dominant part of any swinger’s playground such as lifestyle clubs and cruises. It is where a lot of action, I mean orgies go down. A playroom comes with a lot of beds for group sex and is usually open from 11 pm to 4 am on the cruise. Even when you are not going to have sex with anyone other than your partner, you can still pop in to take a long satisfying look.

What kind of people do you meet on a swingers cruise?

First, you will meet a lot of friendly fun folks out to have the best time of their lives. The swinger crowd is generally welcoming to newbies. Also, if you are brave or open enough to state that you are new, then more than half the room will be glad to show you the ropes (in both a friendly and naughty way). A swinger cruise is big on freedom and swingers themselves love to ask or get a subtle approval before they touch or try to go all the way with you. So, relax no one is going to take one look at you and expect you to choke on his balls or eat her a**. Both couples have to be into anything that happens.

As for age and demographics; a swinger cruise consists mostly adults over 40 years. They are also mostly white and middle-class couples from all sides of life. You would also find single women on the average of 30 years old. More than half of the females on a swinger cruise or any swingers gathering are bisexual.

What you won’t find are single men because they are forbidden. Couples on a swinger cruise are defined as; male and female or female and female. You do not have to be a romantic couple.

Hygiene

It’s natural to worry about cleanliness in a place reeking sex and fluids, but trust me when I say these swinger cruise companies are experts. As a standard, the sheets must be changed constantly and the hot tubs are drained clean daily. Most swinger cruises will inform everyone on the areas where sex is prohibited and the areas to let your inner animal roam free. This helps them preserve cleanliness on the cruise especially around food.

Are your partners tested and clean?

They are supposed to be. Some swinger cruises make condom available either by sale or just available. But more often you will be expected to bring your condoms for penetrative sex. Sexual health on a swinger cruise is approached the same way you would when dating. You might also be required to sign waivers absolving the company or organizers from any responsibility.

The atmosphere can tempt you into trying new things

Last on our list of what to expect as a first-timer to swinger cruises is the sudden thirst for adventure. Seeing everyone else having fun, having sex, teasing, and playing will certainly make you open to trying new things. The atmosphere of a swinger cruise is one of adventure and pleasure. It’s hard not to participate fully even when you are a newbie.

Bonus – If you are new to the swinger scene, visiting a recognized swinger club like Eyz Wide Shut can help you go from newbie to pro or at least get intimate with all the stuff you would expect on a swinger cruise.
 

What to do when going on your first swinger cruise

Be on the same page

As a couple going on a swinger cruise for the first time, you need to be on the SAME PAGE. It can be a wild ride when you get on and you don’t want to sabotage your current relationship because you and your partner have nothing figured out. If you don’t want to get too close to other couples, it should be discussed and agreed. If you want to play with other couples but not go all the way…by all means agree on this. Being on the same page with your partner spares you a lot of awkwardness and headaches on this couples cruise. You can also opt for watching first and deciding what you both like later.

Get psyched up!

Lay the image of being smack in the middle of that orgy in your head. Or just think about walking around naked or clothed with like-minded couples and not getting judged. Getting psyched helps you put your body at ease and get your mind excited. A swinger or adult cruise is a no-pressure zone. The less tension you feel, the more you can enjoy it all.

Don’t just stand there, ask to join!

Staff who go on such adult-only cruises would tell you that the swinger crowd is a respectful community. They respect each other and the staff. They are also the best tippers. What this means is that you shouldn’t be scared to ask to join into a conversation, make new friends, and even take part in an ongoing orgy.

Don’t be coy, you will miss out on all the fun!

When you get on that ship, leave your shame at the door because the swinger community is all about letting your sexual dog roam free. Sure, couples will have regular conversations and old friends will catch up but expect those conversations to turn quickly to sexual fantasies, escapades, and expectations. Do not become mute or act inexperienced. Don’t be shocked at a direct invitation to f**k you, your partner or both of you. To make communication easier, you can always follow the lead of the more experienced couple, let the cat out of the bag on your newbie status, or benefit from ongoing seminars on the cruise.

Learn the lingo

Really this should be the first thing you do to prevent a lot of confusion and to respect or create boundaries. On a swinger cruise, up to 75% or more of people are swingers and they have a language to communicate by. Here are the most common you will encounter- learn them and thank me later.

  • Soft swap- This describes couples who want to play with other couples but not go all the way. So they can kiss, touch, finger but no penetrative sex with anyone but themselves.
  • Hard swap- Basically this means ‘you can have my partner and I can have yours’. These couples are open to penetrative sex and more if there is.
  • The lifestyle – This is the word used to describe swingers or being a swinger.
  • Kinky – This is not new. It describes being into a wide range of sexual activities based on pain and pleasure. They include spanking, flogging, instructing or more.

Don’t hesitate to learn some other sexual words too like BDSM, oral, and more.

Understand there will be some turning down

Not every couple you meet will be the perfect fit for you and your partner. Sometimes, you might like one person and your partner may not like the person’s partner. Some couples might also want to go all the way or not. Some might be too sexually aggressive and so on. Know that you can always turn anyone down politely and there would be no hard feelings. You don’t even need to explain why.

Don’t get drunk and miss everything

Do you know you can get so drunk you won’t be able to get hard (whiskey dick)? Or stay still for a doggy? All your fantasies can be ruined by overdoing the alcohol. Even when you are trying to get in the mood, take it easy on the booze and remember you need some stamina for later.

What’s New?

As far as swinger cruises go there are a lot of hot ones coming up but top on the list is the Temptation Caribbean Cruise 2020. This cruise is set to take off in February from the 13th–18th of the month. The details are 13 decks, 1074 cabins, and over 2000 passengers. The itinerary includes port in Tampa, Grand Cayman, Cozumel, and finally Tampa again. The rest of the cruise is on the sea of course.

While cruising from the port of Tampa be sure to visit Eyz Wide Shut the most prestigious swinger club in the area. We are always ready to put a new spin on your swinging adventures. Check out the themed rooms, unique services, and unbeatable atmosphere.